Good luck and my prayers are with you. He gave me a very clear answer that this was right. Also, as Joanna points out, men and women already inhabit a separate culture. She is in pretty deep and culture is a powerful force. So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse. If you marry her, you're marrying into a cult, a mild cult as far as cults go, but a cult nonetheless. If you talk to him about it, and he cares about your relationship enough, the two of you will probably be able to find something that works for both of you. It made me sad to think that the thing that was most important my life в my faith в was something that I could never fully share with my husband.
He also hints a lot to settling down with me. He gets worshipped every day at work. Wish I knew ways on how to cope with being a girlfriend to a doctor.
I have spent my life alone waiting for things to get better. So I understand how it's easy to believe nonsense when you're brainwashed from birth, and how it can be comforting to believe your life is somehow very important in the grand scale of the universe, and how you don't have to be afraid of death because you'll go on to a better place where you'll live happily ever after for eternity. I want to do that though with my husband involved, not be married and be like a single mum. I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. I have always worked full-time and no employers ever give you any lenience. You do not want hear in jeans if you are planning to eat at a fancy restaurant. It's like talking to a wall.
I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. You are a good person. Take the time he actually can give you, and appreciate it. Now after reading this blog I feel like I made the right choice. We are doing long distance at the moment and I was wondering if you have any advice. We have moved four times to 3 different states to accommodate his career, and had 3 children along the way.