As a woman, I write a great deal about men who wear lingerie. To be honest, it has become rather a passion of mine over the past few years. To be honest, it has become rather a passion of mine over the past few years, but it wasn't always that way. This is the story of how I came upon this phenomenon of men who like to wear lingerie, and how I came to love a man who wore panties. In the beginning, I was introduced to men wearing lingerie by a wonderful man who hesitantly revealed his proclivity towards wearing lingerie after several dates. I don't know if I would have responded so well on the first date, but by the time he told me I had already begun to like him—and I wanted to get to know him better. It didn't really seem like it would be that big of a deal if he wanted to wear lingerie; after all, we all have our little likes and dislikes, don't we? My biggest fear came about from hoping that I wouldn't laugh if he looked silly in it.
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For many men who wear lingerie, the most difficult part of the journey isn't making the decision to wear these garments, it's letting their partner know about their desires and habits when it comes to lingerie. It's hard enough finding a nice lady to be with in this day and age—without also having to worry about finding someone who will be accepting of, and perhaps even enjoy, your choices. Many men make the mistake of not telling their girlfriends or wives, thinking that they would be disgusted. However, when you hide this sort of thing from a partner you are actually depriving her of the experience of sharing something that is very special and important to you.
This copy is for your personal non-commercial use only. It started one weekend when we went away and she removed my underwear from my suitcase. When I realized this, she quickly suggested that I wear a pair of hers. Since then, she said that in order to continue to see her, I have to wear both panties and stockings when we go out, and on weekends she wants to dress me completely. If I spend the night, I must wear a pink nightgown and panty set that she makes me buy on one of our lingerie shopping trips. But her manner of getting you to comply is neither fun nor acceptable. It can drag you into private misery and even public shame. Set limits you can accept. But, if she refuses your boundaries, end it. Our year-old son is moving out.